Today’s Blog is a Debate!
Here’s your scenario guys. I’m going to help you set the scene.
You were out for the day… maybe shooting hoops with the boys, throwing back a few Bud Lights, or picking up some extra time at the office.
You decide to surprise your girlfriend and go by her place for some quality time. Keys in hand, you hop in the car and cruise on over there.
No need to call; it’ll be more spontaneous this way.
Chicks dig spontaneous.
When you pull up, suddenly you get this strange feeling in the pit of your stomach. Something isn’t right here; something is off.
Trying to shake it off, as you park and walk up to the house, your heart starts to pound more and more with each step. You hear faint music playing in the background.
Well, now you are up to the door and fumbling around for the spare key. You could almost swear…
You hear laughing.
Who the hell is here? She said she was just going to do some errands and go home for the day… alone.
Once you get through the door, Oh… you are sure of it now.
Someone is here and they are here with YOUR girl.
You race to the bedroom and fling open the door!
This is what you find:
OK, you get the picture.
What? Just making sure!
Anyways…
What do you do?
Scream, yell, cry, get turned on, join in?
This really is a debate folks, because I have heard opinions ranging on the entire spectrum of this issue.
Today I am going to hear yours.
IS IT CHEATING? SHE IS HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE BEHIND YOUR BACK. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS…
IT’S A WOMAN.
Are you offended? Shocked?
Horny? Betrayed?
Horny? LOL
She is CAUGHT!
What would you do?
Written by Kristie Lynn
Tags: Bud Light, Cheating
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This is the easiest question ever. You join in. You don’t even ask. You go in “Jabs first” too.
HAHHAHA!
I am positive that you are not alone on this opinion!
Cheating. Period. Is the thought of it arousing? Absolutely, but the reality of it…still betrayal. Still trust lost. Still cheating…
I agree with ya Dave.
It’s still Cheating. But a lot of guys listen to the little man below instead of the big man running the show!
Not I…
You’re a good guy Dave
I agree with you Dave. But a lot of guys ignore the morality of it and listen to the little man below instead!
Aww fuck I lost the comment and it made me rewrite it and then posted it again
FUCK!
but is it any different if he knows about it? if you are involved with someone and have sex with someone else period, it’s cheating..but still..I’d have joined and thought my chick was great! lol
so it’s acceptable cheating to you?
is there such a thing? or is it just more forgivable… AH HA
eh, cheating is cheating..acceptable? I think there are levels of cheating that are acceptable, yes. Take for examples swingers..Normally both spouses are 100% involved in it, but according to the bible, morals, it’s still cheating..don’t you think?
Hmmm now we’re getting pretty deep.
Well Polygamists would say otherwise! heheh
I just think some men don’t look at it as bad, and I do wonder why… Like if they are telling their friends this story, you know every guy is like DUDE you should have banged them Blah Blah… know what I mean
Women don’t tend to talk like that, for the most part (again, a generalization)
there are always the Mormans too Kristie! lol
What would you think if you walked in on your man with another man?
I think after the Dry Heave, real Vomit would come out
but isn’t it queer (pun intended..lol) how it can be viewed so differently? I feel the same way, though..I can’t even watch Brokeback Mountain. But I can watch girl on girl porn, no problem.
OMG I bawled through Brokeback Mountain, that was actually a really good movie, I was shocked.
Honestly. its a tear jerker
Cheating is a betrayal of trust. If you’re girlfiend or boyfriend does something without your knowledge and permission it is cheating. If you are aware of her daliances and allowing or even inviting to them then it is not cheating. Admittedly most people do not have the capacity to handle an open relationship. But that doesn’t change what specifically is cheating. So regarding the question of the blog, if she’s doing it behind your back it’s still cheating. I personally would have given her express permission to do it anytime she wanted and joined in when i saw it.
I agree here! If she wanted to “experiment” with another woman, fine… we’ll talk about it, figure ourselves out. Just doing it behind my back. NO!
It all depends, how large are the four breasts involved?
now youre getting complicated… LOL
Does it really matter???
2 Ugly Chicks bumping Uglies or 2 Hot Chicks doing it. Either way, you still wanna watch. HAHAH
it is cheating but it is cheating right. I am morally ambiguous I say make the most of it leave her? sure if you want but not till you play double jeapordy the right way. thaen dump her ass (dont forget some pictures though before you do…)
Yea right… are you gonna leave her after you know you can get threesomes from now on?? LOL
Ohhh man you go for the revenge DUMP, nice move.
HOw the fuck do you only have 2 comments?????
If I was a guy…I am in it or running to get my camera. It is acceptable to cheat while creating your own porn.
You are a day early my dear!
EWWWWWWWWWWWW! NOT THE SAME!!!
Walking in on 2 GUYS is NOT the same as walking in on 2 GIRLS… LMAO!!! Sorry…
Woah… I have no idea what to say here…
thanks for stoppin by!
Who cares? Makes a kickarse story to tell your mates regardless of what happens
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TRUE…….
but some do care, that’s why we’re talking about it
Well, it’s hard to answer this if your a girl. If I walked in on my guy with another guy I’d be grossed out. If I was with a girl, with out my guys permission, that would be cheating. If he encouraged it…all bets would be off, I so would my clothes.
YES ont he other guy thing!! EWWWWWW
You are right, we have the same opinion. Its cheating but its like allowable cheating.
It doesnt hurt a guys EGO most of the time, that’s why
its not cheating if she lets you put it in het butt and then the other girl licks it clean
Genius!
that’s pretty gross and hygenically a nightmare
funniest thing i’ve read today
its not cheating, hey her pussy is still the same and ohh my my…..al need a three some on this
See… a guy doesn’t get offended unless it’s another penis pleasuring her right? cuz then you feel betrayed…
but puss to puss is a dream come true LOL
Hey you’d be surprised how many people agree with you 100% and how many will not…
cheating is cheating……..yeah right, any man that wouldn’t join in is a liar LOL
right??!! LMAO!!
Its like cheating that is almost always allowed…
i’ve been in this situation, all i did was close the door abit too hard, leave the keys in the kitchen, and let her see me walk out to my car and leave. no phone call, no explaniation, i dont want to hear anything.for myself a betrayal is a betrayal it might as well been a guy.
now if the girl is not my wife or my girlfriend then im runing for the cam and joining in.
C.
is it cheating, or not? well… yeah it is. she’s doing it behind your back. the question isn’t really if it’s cheating or not, but if you mind. personally, I’d leave and confront her the next day. if she owns up to it then I’m okay with it, whether she lets me in on it next time or not, as long as she lets me know it will happen again.
the way I see it is that the only reason she didn’t let me know about it before hand is because she was afraid, no matter what I said to the contrary, that I would be jealous and wouldn’t be okay with it.
and the reason I’m okay with it is that even if I make the best spaghetti in the world, sometimes people crave cheesecake. if I caught her eating someone else’s spaghetti I would be offended, but I’m not hurt if she wants a little dessert.
HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!!
BEST COMMENT EVERRRRRRRRRRR
love it. You got it right there.
“I’d leave and confront her the next day”
Buddy you just missed out!! There is no way you are gettin in that threesome if you werent told about it beforehand. Why do you think they did it behind your back?? So you wouldnt be included. They were probably experimenting too see if they would like it (girl on girl)
They will tell you:
A) We didnt really like it and I swear I will never do it again, I am so sorry blah blah blah.
B) We didnt really like it (LIAR) and we will never do it again (BULLSHIT) They dont want you involved!!
That, my friend, is why you jump in right away and deal with everythhing else after the pussy lickin and tri tongue kissin is done!!
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
oh my!
LOL
funny comment, could be true
cheating is cheating ….. weather a girl or a guy …… just because the scenario was a g/f found with another girl ….. what happens when and if it was your b/f found with another guy???
that’s the debate!
I didn’t say I PERSONALLY condone this behavior, I am just throwing out the Question…
Yes Cheating is Cheating I agree. Many guys do not.
For sure join in. Hell if my girlfriend is cheating on me, I’m already bangin women so what’s one more! lol
OHHHHHHHHHH OK so you cheat on all your GFs anyway… why be mad if she does it back to you
You deserve everything that you get sir
woman
hehe
okee dokee thats a whole nother meaning LOL
heheh
gotcha
I have trouble enough satisfying one woman, so I would kick the both out, and spank it:)
really? hehehe
But I bet while you were whackin it, you’d be thinkin of them HEHEHE
Join in and get my rocks off, then make another play date, damn that’s tastey!!
HAHAH
So you are on the YES GO FOR IT team? Yumm Yumm!
Nope its cheating to my husband. I actually had something happen with me and a girl a long time ago. In my head being with a girl was not cheating but I asked him because I thought he would love it and he said No fucking way. Its cheating no matter what and he would be furious. So needless to say he never heard my steamy story.. And sadly it can never happen again.
Really?? WOW! that’s interesting…
See, the whole spectrum!
I know people like that.
My ex used to encourage it, he said that I could do whatever I wanted with a girl if I was horny and he wasn’t around LOL, Which was like all the time! But I said, why should I turn Gay cuz you cant please me???
So how was this “experience”? We would like the steamy story LOL
haha, I bet you would . Lets just say if we lived in a free for all word I would be playing both teams.
Hi five! LOL
I have yet to sample the other team, other than Ivonne’s yummy lips hehehe
:-)
Most of the men I’ve dated would be bothered by it. Probably would have dumped me for it. I think it all depends on intent. A man would get turned on by his woman being with another woman in front of him ONLY if that woman was doing it with the intent of turning him on. If the intent was for her to be turned on by that woman and the man wasn’t a part of that? I’m thinking that would be a different story.
Ahhhh VERY GOOD POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ultimately, it comes down to HIS satisfaction… seems kinds unfair
Good point Girlie!
I asked my husband once if he thought it was cheating if I suddenly were with a woman. He said if he knew about me being with other woman before he married me then no,if he didn’t then yes. I said well you know for a fact I have been with other men because well,I’m no nun so does that mean I am not cheating if I were with another man? he said “Your right,it should go both ways” But in reality it doesn’t. I on the other hand believe cheating is cheating,there should never be a double standard but of course we know that it will probably alway’s be this way.
I tend to agree, cheating is cheating BUT if the other person condones or supports the behavior, no harm no foul right?
Like open or swinger relationships…
It is cheating unless they have discussed it before and decided it was something they were into as a couple.
spot on