*NOTE*
In case you haven’t noticed, I am a female. That means that I write from the female point of view. I am not a journalist nor a juror so I don’t need to remain unbiased. Before you angry guys decide to post comments saying that girls do the same thing and the nice guy finishes last (blah blah *hork*), think about posting your own blog about it.
And I’m serious… that nice guy finishes last bullshit makes me want to puke and it also makes me either pity you for being so fucking pathetic or hate you for trying to run the oldest and most dishonest game in the book… the nice guy/just friends routine.
*End Note*
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if he says he’s sorry this time. If it’s not the first time you’ve heard those words from him, then don’t count on it being the last. If he were truly sorry, he would not do the same hurtful things over and over.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if there are times that he is so sweet. If the majority of the time he’s an asshole, then the sweetness is just an act.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if he says he cares for you strongly but distance or his career or anything else keeps him from being with you. If he truly wanted you, he would make it happen. He’s just saying that to keep you around for whatever he gets out of it… the ego boost, sex, presents, whatever.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter what in his past you think might be the reason he lies so much. The fact remains that he is a liar. This will not change. People have different levels of honor and a liar is right near the bottom with thieves. He will not change, not even for you.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter that he used to work so hard and you know he’s capable of really incredible things. If he is sitting around mooching off of you, he will not get off his ass for you. Boot him.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if you think the drugs or the alcohol make him do these awful things. You cannot fix him. If you try, he will bring you down, step on you, and destroy you just so he can stay afloat.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if you’ve been conditioned to believe that wanting a guy who takes care of himself and has a nice body is shallow. You want what you want. You are attracted to certain types. Don’t feel guilty about it.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter that you have no proof. Life is not a court of law. If you know in your heart that he is cheating, don’t worry about proof. You know it’s happening. Get out.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter that he has not given you any outward reason to be scared. If your gut tells you he is dangerous to you, listen to it. Run if your gut tells you to run and don’t question it.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if he seems so sorry that he hit you. GET OUT!! Even one time is unacceptable. You are better off alone than with some piece of shit that will hit you.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if he says the reason he doesn’t try to see you is because you remind him of the good things about his ex and he’s scared it would be too easy to get seriously involved with you. You are not his ex. You are a completely different person with wonderful qualities of your own. If he does not want to get to know you for who you are and does not make time to see you, then he really doesn’t want you.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if he says that he loves you so much. There are people in this world who are not capable of loving others the way you love or the way you deserve to be loved. It is a fact and there is no changing that. He may think he loves you but if you do not feel loved, then get out.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter what he says when you ask why he doesn’t take you out around his friends. If he doesn’t want to show you off to his friends, then you are a secret. Secrets are things to be ashamed of. Do you really want to stick around to be something he’s ashamed of? Aren’t you worth more than that?
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if the good times are sooooo good. If the bad times happen more often, then it’s not worth it. If you spend more time being unhappy, get out.
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter if you are scared of getting hurt again. “Have enough courage to trust Love one more time. And always one more time.” ~Maya Angelou
Ladies, it really doesn’t matter what other think or say. The people who love you only have your best interests at heart but you have to make your own decisions… your own mistakes. Don’t always go only with your head or only with your heart… when they agree, you know you are safe… when they agree, you’ve found something special.
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